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The blowing of bubbles at a bride and groom as they leave the site of their wedding is a modern twist on a very old tradition. Dating as far back as ancient Rome and Egypt, the showering of a newly married couple with grains symbolized that the wedding guests wished fertility, abundance and prosperity on the newlyweds.
Throughout history couples of all cultures have been showered with many different things such as wheat, corn, grains, nuts and rice. In modern America the oriental custom of rice was adopted as a symbol of fertility. As a couple departs from the house of worship, borough hall or other wedding site, the guests throw the rice up into the air and onto the bride and groom. Thus showering them from above, wishing them a house filled with children and prosperity.
How has the tradition of throwing rice turned into a tradition of blowing bubbles on the happy couple? Rice became unpopular in recent past years for a few reasons. A myth surfaced that uncooked rice eaten by birds will expand in their stomachs and cause the bird to explode. This exploding bird theory is still contested, but many experts say this simply isn¡¯t true. Another reason rice became unpopular was because of the possibility of someone slipping on the rice and getting injured. Also, after the wedding party and guests left, someone needed to clean up the rice that was left.
The throwing of rice did not immediately evolve into blowing bubbles at the happy couple, however. Birdseed was the next popular choice to be showered upon the bride and groom. Birdseed can cause its own problems. Birdseed obviously attracts birds. And with many birds flying above a bride, groom and their many guests there is always a possibility of someone getting hit with bird droppings. Also, as with the rice, someone could slip on the seed and get injured.
Another potential problem with both rice and birdseed is that some of what is thrown may end up stuck in the bride¡¯s hair. There is a German tradition that says that the bride will have as many children as grains of rice that stay in her hair, but most of today¡¯s brides don¡¯t see that as a particular blessing. Also, with the cost of getting your hair done for a wedding these days, having rice or birdseed stuck in your hair is quite undesirable.
So the rice evolved to birdseed and the birdseed has evolved into bubbles. Many consider bubbles ideal since they do not attract birds, pose no slipping danger, do not need to be cleaned up and will not get stuck in the brides hair. The symbolism remains ¨C the wedding guests shower blessings of fertility and prosperity on the bride and groom as they leave their wedding ¨C but the problems dissolve in the air. Also, it¡¯s fun to blow bubbles, especially for the children attending the wedding.
Bubbles are not the only alternative to rice and birdseed. Sparklers at night time weddings, flower petals, and if you have the spare cash to pay for it, releasing live butterflies as the newlyweds emerge are all options that modern couples have chosen. Bubbles, however, seem to be the most common way of keeping the tradition of showering the bride and groom with blessings alive. |
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