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The likelihood that a teenaged boy will develop a depressive disorder is about half as likely as that for a teenaged girl, but nonetheless, the number of teenaged boys with depression has been sharply rising in recent years. It is an alarming epidemic that the youth of today is being forced to face. Many experts attribute the high rates of teenaged depression to the breakdown of family values 每 many teenaged boys are the product of broken homes, divorced parents, and physically or emotionally abusive family situations. Teenaged boys need to learn how to identify and process their range of emotions in order to deal with the stresses of modern life.
Depression is a medical disorder characterized by a chemical imbalance in the brain. The neurons and the neurotransmitters in the brain are responsible for sending messages from nerve ending to synapses. Depression causes these neurons to have trouble sending messages. Serotonin is one of the chemical messengers disturbed by depressive disorders. If the serotonin levels in the brain are compromised, mood changes will result. Serotonin imbalances can be hereditary, but they are not always genetically predisposed. In fact, some people become depressed even if they have no family history of depressive disorders.
If a teenaged boy has many factors in his life that are cause for anxiety, then his likelihood of developing a depressive disorder is heightened. When a teenager*s home environment is unhealthy, it is understandable that the teenager will feel anxious and uneasy. If a teenaged boy*s parents are fighting and cursing at each other on a regular basis, he will be anxious and nervous that his family is falling apart 每 his stability is being jeopardized. If one of his parents or a sibling has a chronic illness, it will inevitably take a toll on the emotional wellbeing of the teenaged boy. When a teenaged boy is being raised exclusively by his mother, without a father figure present in his family equation, the boy will not have a positive male role model to teach him by example how to deal with emotions and stresses. Even if he is not being raised by a single mother, but his father works excessively long hours or goes on out-of-town trips, or if both parents work long hours, the teenager will not have the parental guidance and support that is so crucial for healthy emotional development. The lack of a solid foundation and ※home base§ is a major cause of depression. With the economic demands of today, many parents feel that their priority should be financial success, but the key ingredient to strong parenting is the time you spend bonding with your child, especially during his formative adolescent years.
A traumatic event in the life of a teenaged boy could also lead to the development of a depressive disorder. If a loved one 每 especially a member of his immediate family 每 dies, and the teenager is not clear on how to handle and process his grief, it could lead to depression. Even the death of a beloved pet could trigger depression if the boy does not have the necessary personal skills to cope with death and tragedy. It is crucial that parents tell their teenaged boy that expressing his loss through sadness and anger is natural 每 parents should never encourage their child to try not to think about it. Suppressed emotions will eventually have to be dealt with, and it is very unhealthy to bottle up feelings. A break-up with a girlfriend could also lead the development of depression. Men are encouraged by social stigmas to ※just get over it.§ However, when teenaged boys experience their first break-up, it can be a very hard rejection to understand. He may have feelings of inadequacy, or he may feel unsure of his masculinity and self-image. If he does not have a support network to teach him to express his emotions and share them so that he can move past them, he is susceptible to developing a depressive disorder. If the relationship that ended was his first sexual relationship, he may have even more intense and confusing feelings about his body image and sexual capability. He could be worried about his reputation at school and with his peers, especially teenaged girls. Break-ups are part of life, but if a teenaged boy does not have the skills to handle the break-up, then he risks becoming depressed.
If a teenaged boy has trouble connecting with his peers and developing friendships, he is likely to question his self worth. He will feel like a loner, and he may begin to act out through disruptive behavior at school or he may even begin experimenting with drugs. Acting out is his way of expressing desperation for acceptance and compassion. It can be very damaging to be an unpopular kid at school, and parents need to help their teenaged boys develop interpersonal skills that are helpful in forming lasting friendships. He may begin to have a hard time concentrating at school, which will lead to academic failures, and therefore further reasons for the boy to doubt himself and become depressed. Parents should nurture any talents or special interests that their teenaged sons express so that they build their son*s self-esteem. Confident teenagers are far less likely to become depressed. |
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