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Television commercials, Internet ads, and department store shelves are lined with every toy imaginable for kids today. From dolls to trucks and games, there is something that is sure to grab the fancy of a child ten years old or younger.
But then again, today's kids have more toys than any previous generation. With an average of 50 or more each, kids may not need another plaything. So what can thoughtful parents buy as a holiday or birthday gift?
Here are some less traditional gift options to consider for the elementary-age child:
1. Give a savings bond. Encourage the child to think about something to purchase when the bond matures, with an emphasis on long-term saving rather than short-term spending. Not only will the bond provide an eventual cash gift, but you are teaching the child to think ahead and develop patience instead of practicing immediate gratification. You may even decide to present a bond each year, so that in a few years the gift will continue to grow, resulting in a substantial reward.
2. Give a great book. Choose a beautifully bound, nicely illustrated classic story to introduce the child to the pleasures of great reading. While the book is sure to entertain, it also may whet the child's appetite for more of the same, cultivating a life-long attitude for good books. Research shows that good readers make good students, resulting in higher grades.
3. Give a unique music CD. Introduce the child to Russian folk music or Italian opera. Play the music while together and discuss its merits and differences from the usual music fare the child listens to.
4. Give the gift of drama tickets. Take the child to a children's play or something the entire family can enjoy, especially if you can get to a larger city or a more sophisticated production. Children often express great delight in the sights and sounds of a dramatic production as long as the story is age-appropriate.
5. Give an all-day outing of the child's choice. Have him or her make a list of the things he most wants to do, adjust the list if needed, then head out for a day of fun and adventure. Amusement parks, the zoo, a favorite restaurant, a video game arcade, or even a weekend camping trip can provide life-long memories of the special day.
6. Give a scrapbook or videotape of the child's life to date. Photos, mementos, ticket stubs, locks of hair, and other memorabilia intrigue children who are fascinated in seeing themselves from other perspectives. Such gifts make a permanent memory of the occasion and of the child's life up to that point. Include images of other family members, pets, neighbors, school friends, and pals, as well as favorite toys and possessions, along with the child's room or play area. Memories like these will be priceless later on.
7. Give a long-deferred gift. If your child wanted something for a long time, this may be the time to present it. Whether a bike not given at Christmas or a fishing rod held back until the child grew older, consider giving a gift with special meaning on this special day.
Children view birthdays and holidays as exciting events. Put some thought into the next one for your child, especially those commemorating milestones like the double-digit birthday (age 10), or the first birthday after Grandma's passing. Birthdays need not become just another occasion for another toy. Choose something different and meaningful and make wonderful memories for the future. |
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