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Your sixteen-year-old son has just joined the third sports team this year. Exasperated, you wonder how you're going to get him to yet another round of practices and arrange your schedule to attend another set of games.
Over-involvement is just one of the many typical concerns that parents have when teenagers get involved in playing sports. While a sporting activity may seem like a wholesome hobby that builds positive minds and bodies, there may be drawbacks that parents should be aware of and prepare to deal with. Here are some of the more common issues:
1. Too little time. If your teen joins several school sports teams each year, he may put his academic progress in danger. At least, that is what some parents worry about. And they may be right. Kids who run from one practice to the next and juggle that with homework and a social life not to mention house chores may run the risk of burnout or illness. Parents need to monitor the situation to ensure that kids do not take on more than they can manage. If you feel your son or daughter is getting too involved, suggest a limit of two sports per year, balanced with other social activities or desirable goals, like driver's training when your child reaches the right age.
2. Academic compromise. Playing sports may interfere with homework and study time, some parents fear. On the other hand, though, getting involved with sports means that students must maintain a certain grade point average. Coaches sometimes provide tutors or push homework study to keep their athletes in good academic shape. Parents may want to check with the school office or the coach to find out what the academic standards are for students who join a team.
3. Health concerns. Field sports in all kinds of weather in conjunction with a hectic schedule may spell trouble for a teenager. Unwilling to recognize weakness or accept a limit, they can literally run themselves into the ground and become quite ill. Parents can help to address this by insisting on proper eating habits and serving nutritious food, and getting adequate sleep, at least eight hours (and preferably nine) since their growing bodies need rest to reach their full potential.
4. Injuries. The occasional fatal accident can frighten many parents into forbidding their child from playing a sport. While this concern holds some validity, it may be worthwhile to discuss concerns with the coach or to look up information online at a trusted medical site. Discussing it with your family doctor can help, too. Make sure your child drinks plenty of water and does not become overheated when practicing in warm temperatures. Frostbite should be protected against with layered clothing in cool weather. Your teen should not attend practice or play a game with a temperature or with symptoms of illness.
5. Developing a jock mentality. Occasionally a teen will sprout a hard-noted attitude that seems to go hand-in-hand with sports involvement. Being tough on the field does not mean acting the same when out of uniform. Talk with the coach to encourage the sharing of positive values and a wholesome attitude. Any team that does otherwise does not deserve your teen's membership.
Sports participation may seem like your child's decision to make. But a thoughtful parent should monitor a sporting activity to ensure the safety and well-being of a teen player. |
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